Ive noticed that a lot of people in general tend to idealize and?
Mature adults see things in shades of grey, vs. black and white. People who have personality disorders are generally in a state of arrested adolescence and cant make distinctions that accurately reflect reality. Consider that young children cant do this either, and youll recognize that these absolutist thinkers arent truly grown up. And no, I dont think therapists are just nitpicking; theyre pointing out something important to evaluate in assessing a persons thought processes.